As parents we have a million things going through our heads at all times.
did I change the load in the wash
what is for dinner tonight
do I have those groceries to make that
I hope I am going to have time to get Ryan to her doctor appointment without waking her from her nap
did Olivia eat enough for breakfast and was it even healthy
Lets be honest do our minds ever stop- I know mine doesn’t. I went and got a massage the other day and the entire time I was thinking about a million things. I couldn’t even relax.
I know I don’t have it bad compared to some but between dealing with Ryan’s acid reflux and than adding her plagiocephaly & torticollis into the mix I feel like we are always on the go. The last thing that I want to have to deal with is a diaper rash.
When Ryan was about a month old she started getting really bad diaper rashes & was upset all the time- the only thing that would calm her down was to nurse her but that only lasted a few minutes and than she would arch and scream. Come to find out she was reacting to all the dairy that I was eating (which I live off of my dairy) and she had acid reflux. One thing that really helped during this time was Desitin Rapid Relief.
Every now and then we still deal with diaper rash but it is nothing compared to those earlier days. I also know that we are staying on top of it to help prevent it from happening. If you are dealing with diaper rash right now Desitin shares some of their secrets how to deal with it here as well as how to prevent it from happening here. We love using the Desitin Rapid Relief but I also recommend trying their Desitin Maximum Strength Original paste. Have you tried Desitin? What are some secrets to keeping your little ones bum from turning red?
Many of you that follow me on social media or this blog now know that I am a huge fan of Evivo Probiotics. This is the 3rd time that I have mentioned them on my blog in the last few months. If you are new here I will explain something before going into this post.
My daughter was born and was extremely upset- all the time- the doctor tried telling me that every baby has an upset time during the night but this was more than that. You could tell she was in pain. I than started to notice the smell- that acidic smell coming from her and I instantly knew that she had acid reflux. We took her in and one of the first things the pediatrician recommend that I try was a probiotic. The probiotic that we started her on helped but wasn’t doing enough- so we ended up getting her on medication. Good news is that she became an instantly new baby- the relief she was getting was amazing.
Anyways after reading about all the benefits that the probiotic had for my daughter and than witnessing changes in her for the better after being on it, I started thinking more about my own health and reasons why I should be taking a probiotic.
I am now on a probiotic as well and completely understand why she seems like a whole new baby once being on the correct probiotic. Like I mentioned above- the one we tried first made improvements but once we got on Evivo she was a completely different, happy baby. Every new mama that I meet- I mention to them that they need Evivo and a dockatot, haha, my 2 favorite baby products.
I have a lot of people ask me about my favorite baby products so I thought I would put together a top 5 favorite baby products list. I love to try new products that I hear of and am sent a lot of items to try out so I thought it was time to make a list of my all time favorite products. Here are my top 5 in no particular order.
Top 5 Favorite Baby Must Haves
Everyone always asks me if it is really worth it or as good as people say. YES- it honestly is. When I finally caved and bought our first dockatot was when Olivia was 9 months old. She was sleeping in our room still and wasn’t sleeping through the night- 9 months you guys of not having a full nights rest. I was desperate and didn’t care how expensive something was going to cost me as long as I could have a full nights rest. I bought the dockatot and never looked back. The first few nights she wasn’t quite sure of it- but after 2 nights in the dockatot she was sleeping through the night. At nap time she would snuggle into her favorite position and just fall right asleep. The dockatot deluxe was the first item I bought when I found out I was pregnant again. Trust me you wont regret buying this product.
A great swaddle (Ollie Swaddle & Ergopouch)
With Olivia I bought some velcro swaddles from Target and hated them- the reason why was if I was changing her diaper in the middle of the night I had to pull her all the way out of the swaddle. There were times that she would have stayed half asleep if I didn’t have to do that so I stopped using them and took them to a thrift store the next day. This time around I made sure to get swaddles that I could get to their cute little bums without fully pulling them out of. That is what I love about the Ergopouch & Ollie swaddle. Now I recommend these both because you need a few swaddles anyways when one, or two, or three are in the laundry pile. I like them both for different reasons. I love that the Ergopouch has a little more wiggle room so Ryan can still move around in it but not too much. I have done where I keep her arms inside the pouch or have let her arms come through the holes. I also love that it has two zippers so she can stay in the pouch still. The ollie is similar where it velcros across her body but has an opening at the bottom that you close with an elastic. When changing her you just slide the swaddle up- wa-la.
I can’t say this enough now (now that I know how important it is) that every infant should be on a probiotic. I was never told of the importance for Olivia to be on one when she was infant and I regret not knowing it. I wasn’t told with Ryan until a month old and we went to the doctor about acid reflux and was told to try a probiotic first before medication. Why isn’t this told to every mom. If your child gets on a probiotic when young you are setting them up for a healthy life- for the rest of their lives. GUT HEALTH is where it’s at people. Have healthy insides and we will have healthy outsides as well. I already talked about my favorite probiotic EVIVO in this post- I highly recommend you see the benefits of a probiotic and EVIVO is the only clinically proven probiotic to restore a healthy gut. Why not go with the best if you are going to choose one.
I am very opinionated about this and I don’t always use it as a backpack but when I need it its great to have it as an option. As a parent you are already juggling so many things- don’t add a diaper bag to the mix. When you are chasing around your toddler or kids you are going to want your arms free too so just make it easy on yourself and get a backpack diaper bag. I love my Fawn design bag and I actually have 3. Yes I have an addiction with backpack diaper bags- I even bought the Freshly Picked diaper bag on their Kickstarter and can’t wait to get it this fall. I’ve been eyeing the new Kikilu diaper bag in Cream– cuz yes everyone needs options. Listen when you become a parent you no longer get to use your purses- most of them can’t fit everything that you need. Plus I don’t want my kids ruining my amazing bags from pre-parenthood. There will be a time that I can pull out my designer bags again but it isn’t now. While I’m rocking the mom look I am going to be rocking a great bag and I need options so don’t judge me.
Carrier I am obsessed with my ring sling. Now everyone has different opinions on this and this is just what has worked with me. I bought the wraps first and wasn’t a fan. When I usually carry my daughters its when we are out in public. I didn’t like trying to wrap myself and having it drag on public ground- gross- than I was going to put my baby in that thing. I tried wrapping it before leaving and I just hated doing that. Than I discovered Sakura Bloom and instantly fell in love. So much so that I started getting all of my friends on board of baby wearing. Whenever I would go out in public people would actually come up to me and tell me that they loved seeing a mama baby wearing. I would get complements on how gorgeous the wrap was. I could keep my baby close and kiss her at all times and keep people away from touching her. I am a huge fan of ring slings. I found it so much easier to learn how to use- it was compact in my bag, and it didn’t drag on the ground when I tried putting it on in public.
Now if you are doing more of heavy walking around- for example walking around the park or going hiking or trail walking I highly recommend the Lillebaby carrier. This is so comfortable, didn’t hurt my shoulders, waist or back. They have beautiful colors and designs- as well as lots of different models. Every mom that I have talked to about these types of carriers have all told me they love their Lillebaby carrier.
I am curious- have you used any of these items for your children? Do you agree with me? What are some of your favorite baby products? Please share below so I can look them up.
As hard as breastfeeding is, because come on ladies lets face it breastfeeding can be a really hard journey, I was looking forward to it so much with my second. I missed those tender moments of just the two of you cuddled up quiet somewhere while you provided life for this child once again. Having them look up at you with this look (you know the one) is so tender it just melts your heart. I missed those moments so much with Olivia and couldn’t wait to experience them once again with Ryan.
This journey has been completely different though. Right from the start something just seemed off with Ryan. She attached wonderfully and my milk came in great- that wasn’t the issue- but she was spitting up a lot. The nurses kept telling me I wasn’t burping her hard enough which I probably wasn’t but I knew that wasn’t it. Ended up she had to have her stomach suctioned out from possibly swallowing some fluid during birth.
So I thought everything would be ok after that, but it wasn’t. The spitting up continued- which I know is normal for some kids but I just knew it wasn’t normal for us. This calm and snuggly baby would start to get extremely stiff and get very upset. We would have rough nights where she would just scream and the only thing that would calm her was to nurse her but than it was a vicious cycle all over again. I started to notice that the spit up smelt acidic to me as well.
After the doctor finally realizing that something was probably wrong I was recommended to cut out dairy and to put Ryan on a probiotic. I had never thought of putting my baby on a probiotic before. I’ve heard of so many adults starting to take probiotics but for some reason you think infants should stick to breastmilk or formula and nothing else. After looking into probiotics more I was contacted by Evivo to try out their probiotic. These are some things that I have learned about their product after looking into it more.
97% of North American babies are born with out B. infantis- which are the good bacteria.
why is it important to have this B. infantis in your babies gut- when present your babies gut is in its best most natural original state. They help to keep harmful bacteria from growing. With this high rate of babies not having it present they believe that is why there has been an increase with eczema, allergies, obesity, and diabetes in babies.
Evivo is the first and only product of its kind, clinically proven to restore a healthy gut. Evivo is a daily probiotic powder with activated B. infantis- once mixed with breastmilk and given to baby- helps to release nutrients in the breastmilk creating an internal environment in your babies gut, developing the immune system and creating a foundation for good health for life.
Maximize every bit of your breastmilk Evivo captures all the special carbohydrates from your breastmilk which are called HMOs (human milk oligosaccharides) that might be otherwise lost. Evivo consumes these HMOs in a unique and superior way to grow and protect your babies gut microbiome. Evivo than converts the HMOs into important nutrients that feed your baby and enriching gut microbiome. This significantly reduces the potentially harmful bacteria in your baby.
After finding all of this out I wish I would have discovered this product sooner. What parent wouldn’t want to support a healthy gut environment setting their child up for a long and healthy life. I highly encourage you to at least go to Evivo’s website and read about it for yourself. Educating ourselves will only benefit our children one way or another. If you are interested and want a promo code for $10 off your starters kit copy and paste ev7-d68aft59 exp: on 9/30 or after first 50 readers
Olivia is loving being a big sister- almost too often at times. Any of you with two kids probably know that they often want to help out which is amazing but sometimes their help isn’t very helpful at all. But one thing that I love having help with from big sister is diaper changing. No I don’t make her change diapers- yet- hehe but she helps me change diapers by getting me a new diaper for Ryan and grabbing the wipes.
What cracks me up is while changing a poopy diaper she always goes yuck, ewhh- it totally cracks me up every time. I always reminder her that her poopy diapers are yuck too. She always sticks it out though and will still help me out which I appreciate.
Now having two kids in diapers can sure add up at times but what helps to lower those costs is shopping at Family Dollar and using the Family Dollar Smart Coupon for $2 off Huggies. Family Dollar even carries Huggies Snug & Dry which comes with new FOUR layers for reliable, long-lasting protection for up to 12 hours. What else helps to cut some costs is the Huggies one & done refreshing wipes. They are designed for only one wipe to come out at a time & they are also thicker.
We all know those wipes come in handy for more things than just wiping our babies cute little bums. I am always pulling out wipes to clean Olivia after getting sticky or dirty. She is such a girlie girl in not wanting her hands to be dirty, so being able to wipe her completely down with just one wipe is saving me money or should I say is adding towards the cute baby clothes fund.
Now what I like about the Family Dollar Smart Coupon is it’s so easy to use. I will go through and pick coupons I want to use either ahead of time or while in the store- once I’ve clipped them into my account by just clicking the add button- they are all together- every coupon I have clipped. Once at check out you will just enter your phone number that you used with your account and it will automatically work at the register. No more searching your purse for coupons and holding up the line at the register.
So if you are a Huggies fan and want to pick up a $2 off coupon click here. Family Dollar has a Family Dollar Smart Coupon that can save you all year long and they have the products for the everyday low price as well. Click here to find the nearest Family Dollar Store near you.
I love sharing about small shops. I love finding and support new ones and they often have unique items that I get questions about all the time. This adorable shop Koowawa is no exception to that. Now I am obsessed with adorable socks for my kids. My husband the other day actually begged me to just buy plain old white socks so that he can always find a match. Nope- sorry honey- this is my chance to dress these little ones up as adorable as I want to.
Now searching for cute socks I have found an odd pair here or there – but Koowawa has one of the largest selections of cute kids socks that I have found. I was also thrilled to find them in different sizes so I could live out my fantasy of dressing both my girls alike as well. Just look at the photos below of how cute they are and this is just 2 different pairs. I’m tempted to buy most of them just because but this mama is on maternity leave and needs to be careful with the funds. Go give them a look though- I bet you will find several pairs you love.
I have been searching for the perfect maternity clothes during this pregnancy because last time I really didn’t want to waste the money- I tried really hard to extend my normal wardrobe as far as possible. Honestly it was the worst thing I could have done. It made it so much more uncomfortable, I never wanted to go out because I felt fat & would rather stay home in sweats that fit my growing belly. I don’t know if I was in denial about how big I was really stretching or if I just didn’t think it was worth the money but this time around I knew it was worth the money. Especially since my belly already knew how to stretch and popped almost instantly.
Do you know what else I didn’t expect- the belly and hips to stay bigger once the baby was born. I honestly thought that I would be able to fit in my fat pants. I knew I wasn’t going to be instantly back to my original size but I thought that for sure I could fit into my fat pants. Ya that was not happening. I was so much harder on myself. My husband was the one that said to me one day “It took 9 months to grow that baby inside you, why are you expecting your body to bounce back instantly.” Thank you wise husband for reminding me and for being such a huge support.
This site I have found has amazing deals all the time, great prices to begin with, and great maternity clothes too. One thing that I knew I wanted for sure was a great maternity robe though. I live in a robe at home- pssst I actually call them housecoats and it dives my husband crazy- anyways I knew I wanted a great maternity robe not only for at home but to use and wear around the hospital. My last pregnancy that is all I wore at the hospital but mine wasn’t cute and since you know family is going to be taking lots of photos a cute robe was a must.
I saw this one and I was instantly in love, not only with the print and color but the length. It was a great deal too. My husband asked me since it’s a maternity robe am I only going to wear it during my pregnancy- Heck No- this robe is way to gorgeous and honestly it can be used during anytime. A robe has lots of fabric naturally so any robe would have worked. I am so happy with this product and know that it is getting lots of use during this pregnancy but will continue to get lots of use even afterwards as well.
Dockatot– deluxe: We got the dockatot grand for Olivia when she was around 9 months old, I was desperate for a goodnight sleep and loved what I had read from other moms. I researched about them and loved knowing that every part is breathable- when you’ve got a baby that loves to stuff her face into the covers or sleep on her belly this was a big issue for me. The first few nights she wasn’t sure about it- it was something new and I was nervous that I had just wasted my money, but after that once I would lay her down she would snuggle to her comfort spot and go right to sleep. I knew we hit the jackpot but especially when we started to go to friends homes during her naptime or staying over at grandma’s house to visit. I dreaded trying to put her to sleep in a new area but with the dockatot that is familiar for her so she would fall a sleep pretty quickly. I knew that with our second child this would be one of our first purchases we made.
Owlet: Do you or did you every just stare at your baby sleeping and wonder if they were even alive? Well I use to all the time- I remember the first time she slept through the whole night I woke up in a panic thinking she had to be dead. I just sat there and stared at her for a few minutes. She wasn’t moving and it looked like she wasn’t even breathing. I started to stroke her face and poke at her until she moved just a little to make sure she was alive. I would wake up in the middle of the night and have to check on her even though she was in the same room as me. I feared I missed her struggle or cry for help. About 9-10 months later I heard about this new baby monitor called the Owlet and I knew I was getting it with my next child. This little sock sits on the babies foot and will monitor their oxygen level and heart rate. I think this is a must for all parents but especially little ones that have been in the NICU.
The Ollie Swaddle: I hated trying to swaddle Olivia up only to have her untangle it soon after but the velcro swaddles that I got from Target were annoying to me as well. When Olivia would wake up in the middle of the night and need a diaper change I would have to unswaddle the entire thing waking her up in the process. There were times she would start crying so loud my husband would come in wondering if he needed to step in and help- nope dear just trying to change her diaper, she will be fine once she is warm and swaddled again. This swaddle you can keep the baby all nice and snug and just work up the open bottom and get things done. I can’t wait to try this out.
Little Unicorn Swaddle: Have you seen these swaddles- they are beautiful and so soft. I had very cute swaddles with Olivia but these ones were gorgeous. This was something I wanted to invest in for my next baby and I also love to get them for friends as well. I also love that they are light weight so I often use them as blankets, especially in the summer time.
Lucy Darling- Baby book: I got one of these baby books for Olivia and it is adorable. They are well made, easy to keep up on, and very well priced as well. If I was able to keep up on this baby book than anyone can. I am the worst at that kind of stuff but it was important to me to have for her when she was older. Plus they came out with some new designs since Olivia was born.
UppaBaby Vista Stroller: I have the Bugaboo Cameleon right now and it is a great stroller- I love it. But I don’t want to switch over to the donkey- it seems a little to bulky to me. I know you can buy the little skate to add on but Olivia LOVES to be pushed in her stroller. I don’t want her to feel like she is getting booted to walking or even hanging onto that skate part while the baby gets her spot. The Uppababy Vista has where you can add another seat to it- how great is that. You can do so many different configurations as well to find something that works for you. This is still on my wish list because I spent way too much already on Black Friday. Oups- the baby needed it all.
Where did I find all these amazing products? In just one spot- The Baby Cubby. This is a local store here in Utah but I actually bought everything online. I have followed this store on instagram for awhile now and have been to a few of their pop-up shops. I have also watched a few of their periscopes where they have talked about products they have at the store and they also showed some awesome things from the baby convention and were asking their followers for advice on what products we were all curious about and wanting in their store. I love that sense of community that they give to all parents. It really does take a village to raise a family and they are a great member of that village to help.
The Baby Cubbyjust isn’t another baby store, they honestly want to help you on your journey of being a parent. Car seats are something that I really struggle with- there has been times that I have had to remove the base out my car and getting it back in has been a real struggle. I am not that strong to pull it as tight as it needs to be. They have a car seat specialist that you can always stop off at their store and they will check it for you and if anything is wrong they will help you correct it.
They often host pop up shops for other local vendors as well. I love a store that really believes in community and bringing people together. They will have small shops set up at their location and host the event. Their store also likes to support small shops and they often ask their customers if there are products that they want them to carry. That right there is amazing service to me.
Now on Black Friday they were having an amazing sale- everything that I wanted on this list was on sale so I stayed up until 12:01 to make sure I got it all. Now this is where it’s a huge surprise- Saturday afternoon I got a knock on my door and I have 2 packages from The Baby Cubby- I bought this stuff the day before. It was so fast and everything came very well packaged. They offer nationwide free shipping on orders over $49. Which lets be honest as a parent the last thing you really want to do is run to a store and have to get out of your car to do anything. I love to shop in my pjs with my hair in my 2 day old bun and know that I didn’t have to pay for shipping either- win-win.
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*This post is sponsored by The Baby Cubby- all thoughts and opinions are my own and honest. These items are truly on the top of my list of must haves for second baby.
Hey I have mentioned before that I am obsessed with monthly subscriptions and so here is another one. Mom’n’Tot Box
There is just something about always getting happy mail and it being amazing that makes it that much more fun. I think Olivia must agree because her face is priceless when opening up her box this month.
What is fun about this box “which the name says it all” It has something in there for your baby or toddler as well as for yourself. We all like to get presents at times.
This month we got a wooden toy camera, non toxic crayons made from beeswax, a first aid kit that fits into the diaper bag, nail polish for me, and little shorts for Olivia.
That is a lot of things in 1 box.
You can tell by her facial expressions she was thrilled.
Her favorite things are obviously the crayons and the wooden toy camera. She thought it was so funny to see me hold it up and look through the hole. I kept showing her that she now has a camera just like mommy does. My favorite items are her new cute blue and white polka dot shorts (perfect for summer), the first aid kit (I am one of those over prepared people so this was perfect to have it all in a hardshell case, and of course my nail polish. It was a gorgeous light purple- also perfect for summertime nails.
Olivia loved the items so much that she insisted on bringing them outside with us to color. She was also caught chewing on them which made me feel at ease knowing they are safe for her.
Check out these monthly subscriptions at MomandTot
I have a passion for reading. Growing up I loved coming home, grabbing a great book, cuddled up on the couch and seeing my dad on the other couch doing the same. I also loved discussing the books we were reading. I wanted this love for reading so bad for my daughter so I was thrilled when I would catch her playing quietly in her room flipping through a book. She will bring me books, sit on my lap and point at things while turning the pages.
Something else that I also love are subscriptions. Seriously, I was signed up for a monthly 3- bow headband subscription, weekly meals from Blue Apron, toys subscription, diapers, magazines, you name it.
So when I found a monthly subscription of books for my daughter I was thrilled.
I can honestly say that one of our favorite books has come from the Bookroo monthly subscription too.
Olivia has so many books but I had never heard of this one. It is her favorite book and mine as well. She will honestly give me kisses throughout the whole book and I have noticed that she will continue giving me more kisses throughout the day.
One of my favorite quotes is “I do believe something magical can happen when you read a book” J. K. Rowling
I love seeing that Olivia sees the magic in books already and I hope to continue that love. Having a monthly subscription from Bookroo will help to continue her love for reading.